Our story

We were originally established as Havant Women’s Aid in 1977 by a group of local women who recognised the need for a refuge for women and children experiencing domestic abuse. The refuge was initially run on a voluntary basis with a small annual grant from Hampshire County Council.
Our story

Towards the end of the 1980s, it was decided that Havant refuge needed to be funded to a level that allowed for a fully professional approach. With support from Portsmouth Housing Association, Havant Borough Council and Hampshire County Council we were able to become financially independent.

Now, Stop Domestic Abuse are the principal provider of services to those affected by domestic abuse in Hampshire, Portsmouth and Southampton. We provide community-based services, and group work for individuals to help them understand domestic abuse and improve their safety. We offer preventative work in schools, face to face and virtual support, group work and awareness raising events for professionals and the wider community.

We run 18 refuges across Hampshire, Portsmouth and Southampton which are available to women with or without children. We offer dispersed accommodation units for people who are unable to or face barriers to accessing refuge accommodation.

We also run a perpetrator programme for people who use abusive and/or unhealthy behaviours and accept responsibility for their actions and want to change.

Timeline

1977
Havant Women's Aid founded

A group of local people saw a need in Havant (Hampshire) for a refuge for women and children. They established Havant Women’s Aid which later became Southern Domestic Abuse Service.

1977
1978
First refuge opens

The first refuge opened. It was known locally as ‘Betty’s Refuge’ after Betty Bell who had been instrumental in getting it established.

1978
Thursday, August 28, 2020
A growing reputation

Demand in Havant increases and the refuge becomes better known as a source of help for victims.

Thursday, August 28, 2020
2011
Services for male victims
Stop Domestic Abuse starts delivering services in East Hampshire District and community-based services to male victims of domestic abuse.
2011
2015
Community and accommodation services
We secure the Hampshire County Council Integrated Domestic Abuse Service Hampshire (IDASH) contract to deliver community and accommodation-based services in Fareham, Gosport, Havant and East Hampshire.
2015
2015
Support for children of perpetrators

We start a new partnership with Portsmouth City Council to deliver support to the non-abusive partners and the children of perpetrators attending the Up2U service in Fareham, Gosport,
Havant and Portsmouth.

2015
2016
Services for perpetrators
We begin working with perpetrators of domestic abuse in Fareham, Gosport, Havant and Portsmouth through our continued partnership with Portsmouth City Council’s Up2U Service.
2016
2017
First property purchase

We purchase our first property which provides dispersed safe accommodation and also provides the organisation with a capital asset.

2017
2018
Refuge contract win
We start delivering the Portsmouth City Council and Office of the Police Crime Commissioner commissioned refuge (3 refuges with a total of 16 family bed-spaces) and medium risk community-based services in Portsmouth.
2018
2019
Developing partnerships
We start delivering the Hampshire County Council and Office of the Police Crime Commissioner commissioned Hampshire Domestic Abuse Service victim and advice line contract in all 11 Hampshire districts in partnership with our sub-contractor Finding Freedom From Abuse in The Test Valley. This contract includes 92 family bedspaces across 13 refuges (one of which is delivered by with our sub-contractor Finding Freedom From Abuse in The Test Valley).
2019
2020
New refuge for Portsmouth
We open a 5-bedroom refuge in Portsmouth in response to the COVID-19 pandemic.
2020
2021
New commissioned service for Portsmouth
We begin a new commissioned service in Portsmouth to support victims and survivors of domestic abuse, children and young people affected by domestic abuse and people who use unhealthy and abusive behaviours and are committed to change.
2021
2022
New services in Southampton
We start a new commissioned service which includes 12 family bedspaces across 2 refuges (one of which we newly opened on 1 July 2022). We work with our partners and sub-contractors Yellow Door and No Limits to deliver this contract to victims and survivors in Southampton.
2022
2023
Specialist services to support LGBTQ+
We begin a new commissioned service in Southampton delivering specialist advocacy support to victims and survivors of domestic abuse from the LGBTQ+ community, together with the provision of training to professionals supporting LGBTQ+ people.
2023
2023
New stalking services
We start delivering the newly commissioned service for the provision of stalking advocacy and support services. Commissioned by the Police & Crime Commissioner, the service covers Hampshire, Southampton, Portsmouth and the Isle of Wight. In addition we were commissioned by the Police & Crime Commissioner to deliver victim advocacy support as part of a multi-agency intervention service designed to reduce the risk of reoffending amongst stalkers.
2023

“By achieving our vision for Stop Domestic Abuse and committing ourselves to the values that underpin our work, we will significantly improve the lives of those to whom we provide services.”